Implement jemalloc extent hooks memory tracker (#1250)

Should improve/fix memory usage exceeds --memory-limit issues

libs/setup.sh

@@ -124,6 +124,7 @@ declare -A primary_urls=(
   ["librdtsc"]="http://$local_cache_host/git/librdtsc.git"
   ["ctre"]="http://$local_cache_host/file/hanickadot/compile-time-regular-expressions/v3.7.2/single-header/ctre.hpp"
   ["absl"]="https://$local_cache_host/git/abseil-cpp.git"
+  ["jemalloc"]="https://$local_cache_host/git/jemalloc.git"
 )
 
 # The goal of secondary urls is to have links to the "source of truth" of
@@ -151,6 +152,7 @@ declare -A secondary_urls=(
   ["librdtsc"]="https://github.com/gabrieleara/librdtsc.git"
   ["ctre"]="https://raw.githubusercontent.com/hanickadot/compile-time-regular-expressions/v3.7.2/single-header/ctre.hpp"
   ["absl"]="https://github.com/abseil/abseil-cpp.git"
+  ["jemalloc"]="https://github.com/jemalloc/jemalloc.git"
 )
 
 # antlr
@@ -252,3 +254,21 @@ cd ..
 # abseil 20230125.3
 absl_ref="20230125.3"
 repo_clone_try_double "${primary_urls[absl]}" "${secondary_urls[absl]}" "absl" "$absl_ref"
+
+
+# jemalloc ea6b3e973b477b8061e0076bb257dbd7f3faa756
+JEMALLOC_COMMIT_VERSION="5.2.1"
+repo_clone_try_double "${secondary_urls[jemalloc]}" "${secondary_urls[jemalloc]}" "jemalloc" "$JEMALLOC_COMMIT_VERSION"
+
+# this is hack for cmake in libs to set path, and for FindJemalloc to use Jemalloc_INCLUDE_DIR
+pushd jemalloc
+
+./autogen.sh
+MALLOC_CONF="retain:false,percpu_arena:percpu,oversize_threshold:0,muzzy_decay_ms:5000,dirty_decay_ms:5000" \
+./configure \
+  --disable-cxx \
+  --enable-shared=no --prefix=$working_dir \
+  --with-malloc-conf="retain:false,percpu_arena:percpu,oversize_threshold:0,muzzy_decay_ms:5000,dirty_decay_ms:5000"
+
+make -j$CPUS install
+popd